5th Main guide about Adolescence
5. Be careful with the prohibitions: sometimes they can be enforced at too high a cost, and a ban, the observance of which cannot be controlled, provokes lies and destroys trust. Here we must immediately clarify - what is meant by the ban. In a family where there is mutual trust and respect between children and adults, parental restrictions are clear and justified: they explain to children that there are some things that are absolutely unacceptable, nasty, mean. What can not be done in any case! Not out of fear of punishment, but on the basis of our ideas about good and evil. First of all, these are biblical commandments, the violation of which (not only in Christian culture, by the way!) Is perceived as an absolute evil. You can not steal. Envy (do not covet ox, donkey, and so on), anger (including ill will, aggression) are unacceptable. This categorical imperative is brought up with examples of literature, biblical parables, films a...
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