All About Child Guide

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9.  We sometimes overestimate the importance of problems of transitional age - that is, we are inclined to justify rudeness, licentiousness, and laziness with teenage problems.  And still - we justify own laziness and unwillingness to be engaged in education.  “What can you do, it's age!” As such an excuse, by the way, they call not only transitional age, but also the general illness of the child.  Indeed, now many children are sick in one way or another.  And the parents say: “Well, he is sick!  What can he bring up if he is sick?  Well, he just has such features - he attacks people, behaves ugly ... "And I answer that:" If he is sick, then all the more he should be educated and well educated so that some basic things become unconditional for him.  And if you start to give him discounts, he will grow up as an inadequate person and will suffer himself and bring suffering to others. ” Teenagers, of course, need to explain the peculiaritie...

8.  You can not live life for your child, you can not identify with him until complete merger.  No matter how close you are, you have your own life, he has his own. Usually this error is peculiar to moms.  And its characteristic symptom is the use of the pronoun "we."  "We need to prepare for the Olympiad," "we also pass exams."  When I hear this, I always ask: “Wait, is this for you?  Here to you personally? "" No, they answer, but here we are ... with him. " This is bad not only because it is a hyper-care, that the child does not get used to independence.  It is also bad because it gives the child a fundamentally wrong idea about the distribution of roles in the family, about how mothers, fathers and children differ from each other.  And this child will carry this false idea into his adult life, will try to build his family in accordance with it. Proper distribution of family roles is when parents help a child to organize hi...

7. It is  extremely useful for a teenager to communicate not only with peers, but also with smart, interesting adults. When a child reaches adolescence, he often loses the desire to spend time with his parents.  And this is absolutely normal, it does not indicate parental errors.  On the contrary, if the child does not let go of your hand, does not want to go alone for a birthday to a friend, does not want to go to the camp - this is already a cause for concern.  We must soberly understand: the parents will not be with the child all their life.  And in order for his life to be full, successful and happy, he must be socialized, that is, he must be able to build relationships with his peers, and with other people's adults, and with strangers. But for the child to be able to - he must learn this, such skills do not fall from the sky.  And how to learn this?  Who?  First, the child learns this in practice, communicating with peers at school...

6. The  teenager is a social being.  Peers are more important to him than parents.  This is a common cause of conflicts in the family.  Unfortunately, this is a normal stage of maturation.  In the future, your child will work and live among peers.  But if it is right to build relationships with his friends, it will improve your relationship with him. It is very important that your teenager's friends be at your home.  Even if they are used  on  most of the time they spend in his room - it's like they are in your home.  They sit with you at the table, you see them.  And if you want to know your child’s friends, hear their conversations, see what they do, make your home hospitable and warm for them. Be friendly and interested with them, take part in their problems, try to help in their difficulties.  If something hurt you in these guys, it seemed strange, you can ask: "You know, I don't understand what is in it ..."....

5.  Be careful with the prohibitions: sometimes they can be enforced at too high a cost, and a ban, the observance of which cannot be controlled, provokes lies and destroys trust. Here we must immediately clarify - what is meant by the ban.  In a family where there is mutual trust and respect between children and adults, parental restrictions are clear and justified: they explain to children that there are some things that are absolutely unacceptable, nasty, mean.  What can not be done in any case!  Not out of fear of punishment, but on the basis of our ideas about good and evil. First of all, these are biblical commandments, the violation of which (not only in Christian culture, by the way!) Is perceived as an absolute evil.  You can not steal.  Envy (do not covet ox, donkey, and so on), anger (including ill will, aggression) are unacceptable.  This categorical imperative is brought up with examples of literature, biblical parables, films a...

4.  It is not necessary to control all aspects of the life of a teenager, but it is necessary to control his  activities  . For example, in all matters relating to study, you need to keep your finger on the pulse.  This does not mean that every evening parents should check the diary marks and “insect” their offspring on the topic: “Why 4, not 5, or why does Masha have 5 and you have 3?” But know how your child is doing at school - necessary.  First of all, because most of his life is associated with the school.  Of course, it is best if the child himself tells you everything, but this is not always the case. Nowadays, thanks to high technology, it is easier to recognize grades than before.  And you need to know, because every person from time to time there is a desire to relax, to do something, or to avoid work altogether.  This, by the way, is not only about studying, it is necessary to ensure that the child performs everything he does ...

3.  It should be remembered that adolescents, especially those aged 10–13 years, greatly exaggerate their capabilities. It happens, of course, and vice versa - the child is startled so much that he doesn’t see any opportunities at all if he has formed a complex loser.  But an ordinary, as it is customary to call now, “normotypical” adolescent quite naturally think that he can do anything.  Especially in the younger teens.  The child says: “Yes, I'm cool!  Yes, let them try to attack me, I them!  I carry a stick with me on purpose! ” As he grows older, the child begins to understand that he will not be beaten off from any danger, he will not jump over the precipice in two jumps, he will not learn the annual course of mathematics overnight.  “Recklessness” is gradually passing, because some experience and ability to analyze already appears, and by the age of fifteen the teenager becomes much more cautious. Unfortunately, this does not c...

A  teenager needs to be brought up as a free person, because only a free person can succeed in life and become happy. It is the volume of freedom - that is, what to allow, what to prohibit - in the first place, worries parents whose children are already entering adolescence.  But it makes no sense to make such lists - this is already possible, but it is still impossible - apart from the main thing: from family relations, from mutual trust. Let me give you an example: in 1980 I worked in a boarding school and, together with my students, was in a summer labor camp.  There I had a terrific squad leader, a 15-year-old boy.  He worked on a par with adult teachers - the same responsibility, the same sanity, the same sensible approach.  When I asked him: “How did it happen that you are already so mature and responsible?”, He replied: “My parents just trusted me all my life.” In general, the very fact of trust removes many problems. The example is more r...